13. For men, never write a poem for a lady. It means you are either gay or you think it will get you into her pants (it wont). You should know a lot about poetry though and regularly quote it. You will seem intelligent, mysterious and romantic without looking too feminine.
14. For women, never trust a guy who writes you poems. He is either gay or trying to get into your pants.
15. Only fight a battle if you are sure you are going to win.
16.Manage the expectations of those around you. Make sure everybody expects just a little less than what you are about to deliver. Do not overdo this, it must remain plausible. Also make sure you are not to negative in your outings. Generally to much negativity gives a person acid association. Just make sure you are able to give that little extra.
17. If you are going to a bar to meet (and potentially explore) interesting people never take people with a long lasting relationship. They have been with the same person doing the same things for ages, creating a desperate need for something new. This manifests itself in two possible ways. First, the person in question is randomly approaching others in a thoroughly annoying way. Second the person projects his/her fantasies of picking somebody up in a bar on you. Whenever you are talking with someone they will stand behind that person, giving you thumbs up and doing high five signs. If you are not talking to anyone they will nudge and suggest people for you to talk to. Both are a sure fire destructor of any and all forms of charm.